Thread:MattoLenzo/@comment-30340667-20161219170912/@comment-28010522-20161220034634

Foremost, I am butting in. And, an apology beforehand if it offends whom my butting in are concerned.

Before I began, I want to share 2 links. One's Wikia's Community Guidelines. 2nd's Don't feed the trolls. Both of these are under "Advice" sub-section or box, in the Help:Contributing page.

Different things tick different people from different places and backgrounds differently. No matter how old we get, or how experienced we become, or how worldly we are, there will always be the chance to make a mistake of offending some Tom, Dick, and Harry. Too many variables. Also, different people are at different stages of being tolerant, and with different capacity for tolerance.

@MattoLenzo For whatever wrong/s he did, or he didn't do, I personally think he's making an effort to show the better sides of him using the best means he knows how. The fact that he is making some kind of positive effort or efforts, to my understanding, it is something to be noted.

@HelpfulHelper Matto mentioned one thing to be noted from a positive angle. "Stop trying then, start doing it." I'll rephrase that for you. i) Manage your use of profanities. ii) Do try to not leave a comment on a page that may provoke/insult the contributor/s (or creator/s) of the page you wanna leave a comment on. If you want to help, try not to give the impression that you are insulting the intelligence or dignity or effort of other volunteers/contributors. If a misunderstanding or miscommunication occur, it's good and it's appreciated if you come in to explain what you really meant.

One can deliver the same "punchline" with less profanities, or without the profanities. One can also deliver the same "punchline" with less the insults, or without insults. One can also use profanities to deliver the "punchline" without insulting/provoking. There are ways to do things.

We can guide each other and improve. For examples,

a) ABC posted a question on a page, then I come in with a reply. But my reply was reckless, and was rude with insult. One of the admins/volunteers/contributors for this WIkia came in to interject, and remind me not to do that, or direct me to guide on the basic how-to. Like "One can deliver.." mentioned above.

Ok, that's it. Sorry, long love letter! O.o